The idea of “being realistic” holds all of us back. From starting a business or quitting a job to dating someone who may not be our type or moving to a new place – getting “real” often means putting your dreams on hold.
( By Matt Cheuvront ) Today, let’s take a step away from rational thought and dare to be bold. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to accomplish but have been afraid to pursue? Write it down. Also write down the obstacles in your way of reaching your goal. Finally, write down a tangible plan to overcome each obstacle.
The only thing left is to, you know, actually go make it happen. What are you waiting for?
Their was only one thing that immediately came to my mind when i got to pondering these question - I want to be a childrens author.
I've always wanted to - even in kindergarten, when my teachers read my little stories that were a paragraph long instead of just one sentence like the other kids, i would say " When i grow up, i'm always going to write stories ". When asked the same question in Year 6, my final year of primary school, i answered " an author or a paediatrician " ( That last one fell off the radar when i realised too much blood and yucky stuff doesnt make me feel well ). I even expressed the same wish here last year, posting a story i had written for my son and asking you other mummies to critique it. It reviewed well... so whats holding me back?
Fear, certainly - fear of rejection ( What if i think i'm good but no-one else does? ); fear of failure ( What if i concentrate all this effort and nothing comes of it ? ); and, strangely, fear of success ( What if i got one book published and then i couldnt produce a second ? ). But also lack of " know how " - aside from sending off a manuscript to a publishing house, i would have no idea how you go about getting a childrens book publised. I have no contacts in the industry and certainly no-one in my social circle who would have any either. My blog is not well known enough to garner any attention that could help promote any writing i do, and there is no way in the known universe that i have the finances to self-publish ( i dont think i'd want to know anyway - its apparently quite the difficult and thankless route to take ).
So where to from here? I keep churning ideas through my head, keeping noting them down and trying to make something of them; i research publishing house and agents and other novice authors; I volunteer my writing services on websites like Digital Parents and try and get my name out there. I post stories now and then on my blog to see how the childrens-book-reading public respond, and i hope that they enjoy reading them as much i enjoy writing them, that their children might get so excited by the story that they demand repeat readings. I'd love to illicit that kind of response from small children, that huge smile that lights up their faces and the little giggles they get when the words sound funny to them.
I love that stuff - that, that right there, thats what i want to accomplish....
A former history teacher, Tom is a columnist who lives in Lovell, Maine. His column is published in Maine and New Hampshire newspapers and on numerous web sites. Email: marhaenmonros@gmail.com
Showing posts with label childrens book. Show all posts
Showing posts with label childrens book. Show all posts
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Trust Yourself - Dare To Be Bold
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Opinions - Please?Please?Please!
Ok - so remember a while back when i said i would like to write a childrens book one day? Yea well, i need your help on something. See, inspired by my son dumping one of his toys in the bath a few nights ago i sat down and wrote myself a little story entitled " There's a Giraffe in my Bath ". I've read it to a few people and one in particular encouraged me to see if i could get it published. I laughed it off but she said to me " Amy, if i can change careers in my mid-30's, a widow and a mum of 3....YOU can be a writer ". Fair enough. Unfortunately, there is already a childrens picture book called " A Giraffe In The Bath " ( by the very talented Mem Fox, which as far as i can tell isnt like mine at all, just shares a first line ) but i thought i might just post my little effort here and see what you beautiful mummy type people thought of it. Here goes:
There’s a giraffe in my bath
He’s quite big and tall
With him already in
I’ll have no room at all!
I scrub his long neck
And clean under his chin
Then he moves over a little
So I can get in.
I slide in with a “splash! “,
Settle down in my bath
I’m a little bit squished
Up against this giraffe.
The water is warm
And there’s plenty of bubbles
But if mum catches us both
We’ll be in big troubles!
“ Could you pass me the soap? “
I ask with a smirk.
A bath with a giraffe
Is such difficult work!
I have a quick scrub and
Get as clean as I can
But a big, tall giraffe
Wasn’t part of the plan!
Its time to get out
Before the water goes cold
“ You have to go now “
The giraffe is told.
He stands up and climbs out
And he shakes himself dry
And off into the night
Goes that strange giraffe guy.
I smile and laugh
Cant help shaking my head;
I’m done in the bath,
But now who’s in my bed?
So there you go...thats it. If you could give a quick opinion on it, and maybe link it on your blog so i can get as mnay opinions as possible, i would be really really appreciative!
There’s a giraffe in my bath
He’s quite big and tall
With him already in
I’ll have no room at all!
I scrub his long neck
And clean under his chin
Then he moves over a little
So I can get in.
I slide in with a “splash! “,
Settle down in my bath
I’m a little bit squished
Up against this giraffe.
The water is warm
And there’s plenty of bubbles
But if mum catches us both
We’ll be in big troubles!
“ Could you pass me the soap? “
I ask with a smirk.
A bath with a giraffe
Is such difficult work!
I have a quick scrub and
Get as clean as I can
But a big, tall giraffe
Wasn’t part of the plan!
Its time to get out
Before the water goes cold
“ You have to go now “
The giraffe is told.
He stands up and climbs out
And he shakes himself dry
And off into the night
Goes that strange giraffe guy.
I smile and laugh
Cant help shaking my head;
I’m done in the bath,
But now who’s in my bed?
So there you go...thats it. If you could give a quick opinion on it, and maybe link it on your blog so i can get as mnay opinions as possible, i would be really really appreciative!
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